Hell In Gaza

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The atrocities continue.More women, children and the innocents would have to die in this one-sided and cruel war.The rest of the world could do nothing to stop it.The one that could is in it with the Jews.The UN is a toothless tiger, controlled by the big powers that would like to see more Palestinians killed before they intervene.

'Spit In My Face' says The Famous Rabble-Rouser

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Spit in my face says Anwar Ibrahim if Pakatan Rakyat (PR) fails to bring change if given the mandate to rule the country.Well, that is not going to happen soon because even if PAS were to win the Kuala Trengganu (KT) by-election Puterajaya would still be a distant dream.

Earlier, he branded UMNO same as the Jews, atrociously cruel to the rakyat by punishing them for choosing Pakatan Rakyat.Then he tries to hood-wink the Chinese voters in KT by telling them PAS talk of bringing in hudud law if PR comes to power is only applicable to Muslims.PAS itself have never said that.

Than you have his comrade-in-arm DAP Chairman Karpal Singh who said his claim of hudud laws only applicable to Muslims and no others, is a fallacy. It means that Karpal Singh is calling him a liar because he knows what he told the people of KT is not true.For many months he kept quiet on the issue, refused to comment on PAS proclamation of hudud law.Suddenly, he is inspired again that KT, maybe, his carriage to Puterajaya.

Any right thinking Malaysians can read what PAS intention of hudud laws are.Once they are in power hudud laws would be a reality for all Malaysians.

The non-Muslims are dreaming if they think PAS is going to care about them,their culture and their religions once they took over power.Even now,before they gain any central power, they are already protesting against rock concerts, the attire of artistes and hypocritical of anything that doesn't reflect Islamic values.

Anwar is a man with only one mission, to be prime minister of this country.He is of the same product that many of you wanted to change.UMNO is part of his handiwork and sculpture.His Wawasan Team in UMNO embolden him to topple Mahathir.He has the uncanny ability of talking you into total submission, a powerful orator with nothing more than rabble-rousing.

Just hope his dream doesn't come true, there will be 26 million Malaysians spitting on him, more than enough to drown him.

Mahathir's Clarion Call:Boycott America ?

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Hahahaha......Boycott US products? What a laughable matter.

Former Prime Minister Mahathir Mohammad called for a boycott of American's products. Can we ?

Some bloggers have jumped on the band wagon and very excitedly bandied the former premier clarion call to stop buying US made goods.Easier said than done.

One over-zealous blogger have assembled a list of popular American brands we should boycott as shown in the box below.


For every Malaysians, our lives are very much immerse in two foreign brands which are almost impossible to avoid, Japanese and American.These two have made us unbearably dependent on their products.Just look around us if we can actually proudly say anything in our households are truly authentic Malaysian made goods, they are either Japanese, American or European.They may be made in Malaysia but they are not Malaysian products.Others, like the Korean and Chinese still comprises small segment of the all the products we used.

Those bloggers who supported Dr Mahathir's call probably forgot they are blogging on American products.If you boycott America than you have to stop using computers, computer's software and all the American made blogs and not forgetting the Internet.Can you? Our former premier probably didn't realise that he himself is a blogger and very deeply involved in using American products.

Even the list of products and companies prepared by the over-zealous blogger, whoever he is, is a pool of errors.Take for example the company L'Oreal.It is not an American company, it is a French/Swiss conglomerate.The major shares are held by the Bettencourt family of France and Nestle of Switzerland. Mark & Spencer is a British retailer with headquarters in London.It is not an American company.Carrefour is a French international hypermarket, it is not American. There are many more that I need not list here that are not American.Are we supposed to boycott the rest of the Western world too? Than you may have to stop driving your Mercedes,BMWs,Porsche and other European made cars.I understand one of Mahathir's sons hold the agency for Porsche, maybe, he can give up the agency too.

Maybe, we should try sanctions. Don't sell any of our products to them and see how long we can stand on our own two feet.

Don't get me wrong, I would have supported Mahathir if I find it practical.Likewise, I am very much against what happened in Gaza and have written two articles condeming America just few days ago.Going by the response the average Malaysians are not interested in Gaza or cares about the Palestinians, they are more interested in what going to happen in Kuala Trengganu on 17 January.

My guess is, it could go either way.

The Vulnerable Housewives

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AIDS or HIV is like four letter word to a lot of people.Many still do not understand the disease.Aids victims often experience social ostracism and discrimination making them outcasts of society.Not all are responsible for the affliction.Some got it unknowingly from those they trusted.The innocent ones are mostly housewives who contracted it from their husbands who are licentious and chutzpah.

A doctor friend of mine sent me through email an article on the state of HIV and AIDS in Malaysia.The article was published in the Star on Sunday 4 January 2009.

It is also surprising to note that the states with the highest incident of HIV and AIDS are predominantly Muslim states of Kelantan, Trengganu and Kedah.Whether poverty and lack of education had a role to play in the high incidents of this heinous disease is difficult to say.Religion does not teach one to be reckless, in fact Islam forbids premarital sex and sex outside the marital sphere.

In any culture men have the tendency to stray but the degree seems to differ from one culture to another.Has culture got something to do with it? Maybe,maybe not ?

In majority of Muslim homes any discussion on sex is taboo and considered rude.Mothers don't talk to their daughters on any subject related to sex with a view to educating them.Just because Islam forbids premarital sex, there is no need to warn their daughters of the dangers of indulgence at young age, safely assuming that no such thing would happen to the girls.You often hear thing like we don't do this kind of thing because we are Muslims.That's probably is the most fallacious understanding of human desire, self-deception and living in total state of self denial.Sometimes, human desire can overwhelm even the most sensible of adult, let alone the young and restless.

A good example of how society can change with the influence of those in absolute power was Charles II of England.Before his reign, the Puritans had enacted several laws prohibiting sexual deviances, which carried harsh punishments. Charles' rake tendency and decadent relations with several women had an effect on his subjects.There were sudden change in the behaviour of his subjects where sex outside the matrimonial homes were no more taboo or a social stigma.

The writer has done an excellent job to write without, fear or favour, on the true HIV and AIDS situation in the country.It is now for the government to take up preventive measures on how to lessen the impact of the disease or before it becomes an epidemic as in the case of some African countries.Sex education may be the answer to this problem.

For my readers who have missed the one in the Star, below is the article.

Vulnerable housewives

SHARING THE NATION BY ZAINAH ANWAR

Women have moved from those least affected by HIV to those among whom the disease is spreading the fastest.

WHILE the number of men newly infected by HIV has decreased steadily in the past 10 years, the number of women and girls infected has seen a steep increase in Malaysia.

Women have moved from those least affected by HIV to those among whom the disease is spreading the fastest.

While most men are infected through injecting drugs, most infections among women occur through heterosexual intercourse. What is sad, but not shocking, is the fact that the most at risk category of women are housewives.

The just released Ministry of Health and Unicef report on “Women and Girls Con­fronting HIV and AIDS in Malaysia” revealed that in 2004, 44% of all women reported with HIV were housewives. In 2007, each month recorded an average of 28 housewives newly infected with HIV.

Kedah, Terengganu and Kelantan, the three overwhelmingly Malay majority states in the country, recorded the biggest numbers of housewives infected. Kelantan has the dubious honour of recording the highest number – 379 cases as of December 2007. In Johor, it is estimated that 90% of HIV cases detected among women and young girls are Malay housewives.

Marriage is obviously no protection from HIV infection for a woman, even when she is monogamous and stays home as the dutiful wife and mother.

High-risk group

Being a housewife in Malaysia, a Malay housewife especially, has become a high-risk occupation in the context of the HIV and AIDs epidemic.

All research on women’s vulnerabilities to HIV infection points to gender inequalities as the key driver to this global epidemic, which now sees women constituting 50% of people living with HIV.

While the MOH-Unicef report acknowledges Malaysia’s progress in the empowerment of women, this effort is undermined by continuing gender inequality and, in particular, women’s subservient role in relationships.

Even then, the report finds that female sex workers are able to better protect themselves compared with housewives as they are able to negotiate the use of condoms during sexual intercourse.

A 2006 nationwide survey which examined knowledge, attitudes and risk behaviour in Malaysia found that almost all surveyed understood the nature of HIV and AIDS and knew the common routes of HIV transmission. Yet, translating this knowledge into behaviour change and safe practices remains a formidable challenge, confounded by social, cultural and religious expectations and norms, the report stated.

Thus, even if women have access to information and merchandise, for e.g. condoms, gender norms that prescribe an unequal and passive role for women in sexual decision-making undermine women’s autonomy, expose many to sexual coercion, and prevent them from insisting on abstinence or condom use by their male partners. A religious belief that women must be obedient and cannot say no to sex with her husband further increases their vulnerabilities.

At the same time, gender norms related to masculinity encourage men to equate manhood with dominance over women, sexual conquest and risk-taking, and for older men to have sexual relations with much younger women.

Launching the MOH-Unicef report, Datuk Seri Tunku Puteri Intan Safinaz Tuanku Sultan Abdul Halim, chairperson of the Sultanah Bahiyah Foundation, said the socio-economic factors underlying women’s vulnerability to HIV cannot be adequately addressed without the involvement and support of men willing to speak out against violence towards women and refraining from sexual behaviour that puts women and girls at risk.

The good news about this report is the fact that the Government has endorsed its analysis and has recognised the feminisation of the HIV epidemic in Malaysia.

The not-so-good news is the fact that policies are being announced to “protect women” that are not recognised as solutions to the problems. Enough has been written about the ineffectiveness of mandatory premarital testing which is done without the three requirements for testing to be effective and ethical – consent, counselling and confidentiality.

It also gives couples who test negative a false sense of security, as no post-test counselling is provided about safe behaviour. Or the virus was in gestation during testing and thus was undetected. The fact is that infections do occur later in marriage and younger children are born infected. Discriminatory beliefs

What is even more peculiar in Malaysia is that premarital mandatory testing is adopted not as a health policy, but a religious policy, driven not by evidence-based research but by ideology.

As Marina Mahathir wrote in her blog, for as long as women are unable to refuse sex with their husbands even when they suspect their husbands may be HIV+, they will be unable to protect themselves from infection.

The Government is expected to set up a task force to draw up national plans to address the steep increase in HIV infections among women. I can only hope that the task force will take the bull by the horns and confront the issue of gender inequality and discrimination comprehensively as a major strategy to halt the trend.

Research in various countries shows that social norms that promote gender inequality, such as those that encourage men to have multiple sexual partners or to maintain control over the behaviour of their female partners, increase both young men and young women’s risk of HIV, STIs (sexually transmitted infections), and partner violence.

It is a proven fact that gender inequalities are shaping the way the HIV epidemic evolves. Thus, changing gender norms is increasingly recognised as an important strategy to prevent the spread of HIV.

One research tool which measures attitudes toward “gender-equitable” norms is now widely used to provide information on prevailing norms in a community and the effectiveness of any programme that hopes to influence them.

In research done in Brazil, India, Botswana, and Swaziland, it is found that the more discriminatory beliefs an individual holds (e.g. “Women should worry less about their rights and more about becoming good wives and mothers”; “There are times when a woman deserves to be beaten”; “A man should have the final word about decisions in his home”), the higher the likelihood of him having unprotected sex with a non-marital partner or to have multiple sexual partners than those without such attitudes.

Women’s empowerment and progress over the decades show that norms can change. What is needed is leadership and political will to drive the change. Intervention programmes to change gender attitudes, promote sexually responsible and non-violent male behaviour have shown to work.

While change at the individual behavioural level is important, it is not enough. What is also needed is change at the institutional level. Men still dominate our political, economic and social structures.

The challenge is: How do we get men in power who make laws and policies that discriminate against women, who sanction bad behaviour in society by behaving badly themselves, men in uniform who shape young men’s gender attitudes, practices and sexual lives, to start becoming a part of the solution to end gender inequalities that are actually harmful to both men and women, family and society at large?

Research demonstrates that people are not mere products of gender norms – they are active constructors and contesters of them.

As the reality on the ground changes, as women become wage earners in record numbers and contribute to sustaining the family financially, as women increasingly become the sole providers and protectors of families as heads of households, as women become leaders and decision-makers, men’s sense of entitlement to power over women must necessarily change.

The time has come for men in power, men in the family and men in the community to acknowledge the changing realities on the ground and join hands with women to change norms and values so that women are treated as human beings of equal worth and dignity. If we are equal in the eyes of God, why do we remain unequal before men?